You’ll never live a happy life if you always care about what others think about you.

Sunday, 01 July 2012

You’ll never live a happy life if you always care about what others think about you.
Stop looking for reasons you are not happy, focus on the things you do have and the reasons you should be happy.

If he really wanted to be with you, he would. If he really wanted to call you, he would. If he really wanted to talk to you, he would.

I was talking about time. It’s hard for me to believe in. Some things go, pass on, some things stay. I used to think it was memory, you know, some things you forget, other things you never do. But it’s not, places, places are still there, the picture of it, stays, and not just in my memory, but out there, in the world too.

Everyone comes in your life for a reason, some good, some bad, but at the end of the day, they are what makes us who we are today.

I can’t wait for the day I can look at you and feel absolutely nothing.

Sometimes you just have to distance yourself from people, if they care, they’ll notice, if they don’t, you know where you stand.

I say I’m not pretty, not because I’m looking for attention or compliments, but because that’s truly how I feel. I don’t believe that I am pretty because I can see everything you don’t. I see how my stomach looks when I’m standing in my bra, I see the face under the makeup, I see every flaw about myself, even if you can’t. I say I’m not pretty because I’d be lying if I said I was.

Just because one person doesn’t seem to care for you, doesn’t mean you should forget about everyone else who does.

I don’t want perfection, I want effort.

Don’t make time for people who don’t make time for you.

I tell myself I don’t need anyone but the truth is, they don’t need me.

To those of you, who pushed me, thank you. Without you, I wouldn’t have fallen. To those of you, who have laughed at me, thank you. Without you, I wouldn’t have cried. To those of you who just couldn’t love me, thank you. Without you, I wouldn’t know what real love is. To those of you who hurt my feelings, thank you. Without you, I wouldn’t have felt them. To those of you, who left me lonely, thank you. Without you, I wouldn’t have discovered myself. But, it is to you I thank the most, because without you, I never would have tried.

All I want is to fall asleep in your arms and wake up to the warmth of your body next to mine.

Of course it’s you, it’s always you.

Twenty years from now; you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your fails, explode, dream, discover.

She’s getting to you, you’re finding out that you don’t like being without her.

To forget somebody isn’t possible. Deep inside, you remember everything. You may not think of them for years at a time but you don’t know how to forget. You can recall the way they smiled when they were happy and the way their face showed no expression when they couldn’t find their way.

There are only so many times you can allow someone to let you down before you can’t handle the disappointment anymore. When things change, people change. There’s a point in life where you get tired of chasing everyone trying to fix things, but it’s not giving up, you’ve got to do what’s right for you, even if it hurts.

They didn’t agree on much, in fact, they rarely agreed on anything, they fought all the time and they challenged each other every day, but despite their differences they had one important thing in common, they were crazy about each other. – The Notebook

So I guess we are who we are for a lot of reasons and maybe we’ll never know most of them.